That's my term for myself when I put being funny ahead of making nice to wife.
For instance, we tend to forget things when we get this busy, so we like to leave little notes around the office to each other on the white board. My brain must not have been working.
The other day, wife was already running late and when she started the coffee she forgot to turn on the gas burner to heat the water in the coffee pot. I followed up to finish the coffee and found cold water. I thought it was funny so I left wife a cute little note as a reminder.